VIVIAN MATHEWS
Be on your ______ behavior.
We'll meet at yours...
I’d love to join you at your hotel – but only after we’ve had a drink and shared a little spark in public. I don’t host, so I ask that you kindly book a comfortable space for us in advance. From there, who knows where the night might lead…
Screening
Discretion is a two-way street – I take your privacy as seriously as I expect you to take mine. Screening is simply for our mutual peace of mind, and ensures I can relax and be fully present when we meet.
I accept the following screening options:
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A clear photo of your passport or driver’s licence showing your full name (you may blur your address)
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A recent reference from a provider you’ve seen in the past 12 months
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A link to your active LinkedIn profile with 200 + connections that matches your professional website
If you're unsure which method suits you best, feel free to ask — I'm happy to guide you through it.
Deposit
I like to trust that everyone values time the way I do – but experience has taught me to protect my calendar from no-shows and last-minute flakes. A deposit confirms your intent and lets me fully look forward to our time together without hesitation.
If we're meeting in Toronto:
A 25% deposit is required to secure all arrangements within the city.
If we're meeting outside Toronto:
Dates outside of Toronto require a 50% deposit, along with the cost of flights, accommodations, transport, and a daily allowance.
I only accept deposits via gift cards from agreed-upon vendors.
My assistant Daisy will let you know which ones are accepted when you reach out with your date, time, and city of choice.
I do not accept e-transfers under any circumstances.
As for the remaining balance – please have it ready at the very start of our date, tucked discreetly into an envelope. Having to bring it up myself tends to disrupt the mood... and I’d much rather spend that energy on you.
Cancellations
I know that life happens – and sometimes even the best-laid plans shift. I do my best to be flexible, within reason, while also protecting my time and energy.
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If you cancel with over a week's notice, we can absolutely reschedule (based on availability).
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If you cancel with 48 hours to 7 days’ notice, a portion of your deposit may be credited toward a future date. This is handled on a case-by-case basis and at my discretion.
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Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice will result in a forfeited deposit.
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If you cancel within 24 hours, or simply don’t show up, the full amount of the arrangement will need to be paid before I consider rescheduling.
If you respect my time, I promise to show up fully present, glowing, and excited to see you. That’s all I ask in return.
Overnights
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For any arrangements 3 hours or longer, I ask that we include a structured social activity – whether that’s dinner, a show, an exhibition, or simply something that lets us connect beyond the bedroom.
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Overnight dates require a separate hotel room for me, as well as a guaranteed 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep. Trust me, you’ll thank me for it in the morning.
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Priority is always given to longer arrangements and travel engagements, as they allow for a deeper, more luxurious connection.