VIVIAN MATHEWS
Curiosity brings my kitty to life...
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I book time with you?  Start by sending a thoughtful message through my meet me page. Tell me what you’re looking for, when you’re dreaming of meeting, and a little about yourself. If we’re aligned, I’ll take it from there.
What are your boundaries?  My boundaries are clear, firm, and held with warmth, consent, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of every connection I make – nothing is assumed, and everything is discussed. If you're ever unsure, just ask. Tell me whatever your heart desires – from the freaky-deaky to the soft and slow. I’m here to meet you where your curiosity lives. Respect for personal space, energy, and safety – mine and yours – is non-negotiable. That includes prioritizing sexual health. I engage in safe practices only and expect the same from anyone I meet. Passion is beautiful, but it only thrives when everyone feels comfortable and secure. Let’s keep things respectful, communicative, and – that’s where the real magic happens.
Are you open to seeing couples or women? A resounding yes to both! – I adore spending time with women and am delighted to explore with couples of all genders and orientations. I’m Bisexual and very LGBTQ2S+ friendly. When it comes to couples, everyone’s comfort and consent is essential, so I ask that both partners are involved in planning the date – no surprises, please. If you’re dreaming of adding even more magic (a friend or two of mine?), let me know – I just might share that fantasy too. Please note: duo or group bookings are subject to each provider’s individual rates and deposit requirements.
I've never done this before. Is that okay? Absolutely. I'm a new girl myself! I adore meeting new people, especially those who value mutual curiosity and respect. I welcome newcomers with open arms and zero judgment. I see lovers of all genders, backgrounds, and experiences. If there’s anything I can do to help you feel more comfortable, just let me know. You’re in very good hands.
What if I just want to meet socially first?  Why darling, of course – If you'd rather connect over conversation first, I offer social-only (non-physical) dates – perfect for easing in, sharing stories, or just enjoying good company. Prefer to take it slow? My "censored" virtual calls are a lighthearted way to dip your toes in before meeting in person. You can find the rates for both options on my meet me page.
Kinks? Fetishes? BDSM? Old Fashioned? Oh yes. Whether you're craving a sensual slow burn or aching for something more intense and exploratory – I'm all ears. I'm proudly sex-positive and deeply curious about the ways people seek and give pleasure. Kink, fetish, and BDSM play excite me when they’re rooted in mutual trust and clear communication. I'm a natural shapeshifter–sometimes soft and nurturing, other times teasing, commanding, or aching to submit. I love to tune into the dynamic we create together. Every connection brings out something unique in me… and I bet it does in you, too. ​Have a specific desire, scene, or fantasy in mind? Tell me. The more detail you give upfront, the better I can meet you there. We’ll always discuss boundaries and consent before anything unfolds. That way, nothing’s left to guesswork, and we can both fully surrender to the moment. And if you prefer something more classic and intimate? That thrills me just as deeply. Ultimately, my biggest thrill is creating an experience that you leave smiling about for days.
Will my information be safe with you? Discretion is a two-way street – and I take it seriously. Screening is mandatory for all new connections, but your information will be handled with the utmost confidentiality. I correspond with clients using a secure, encrypted email server. If it gives you peace of mind, I’m more than happy to sign an NDA. Privacy is essential for us both so you can relax knowing I value your trust as much as you value mine.
What are my health and safety measures?  Hygiene is of the utmost importance – for both your comfort and mine. I hold myself to the highest standards when it comes to health and cleanliness, and I expect the same in return. I undergo testing every month, and I always play with protection. Condoms are always a must. No exceptions, no negotiations, please for your own sake, don’t ask. These practices aren’t just about safety; they’re about mutual respect and making sure we can relax, connect, and enjoy ourselves fully without any worries.
Can I buy you a gift? A thoughtful present? For me? How awful… (Kidding! Please, don ’t stop.) ​Gifts are never expected, but they absolutely light up my day and earn you major swoon points. If you’re feeling generous, I’ve put together a few ideas for you on my Wishlist page here on my site. Need help with sizing? Just ask my assistant – she’s practically psychic when it comes to me, and she’s brilliant at keeping surprises under wraps (if that’s your style). Blushes guaranteed.
How do you screen new clients? Screening is non-negotiable – it's how I ensure our time together is safe, relaxed, and enjoyable. To verify your identity, please provide one of the following: • A government-issued photo ID • Active LinkedIn profile with 200+ connections • A reference from a provider you've seen in the past year All information is handled with strict confidentiality and stored securely.
Where are you based? Do you travel? I’m based in the beautiful city of Toronto, Canada, and proud to call it home. For nearby dates (within an hour of the city), I’m happy to travel to you – just kindly cover my cab/uber there and back in advance alongside the 25% deposit. ​For longer-distance travel, I generally prefer we’ve already met or spent meaningful time connecting. All travel-related expenses– flights, accommodations, transit, and a per diem–must be covered upfront. A 50% deposit is required to secure any long-distance engagement. ​Take care of the details, and I’ll take care of the rest.
Do you take in-call bookings? Unfortunately, I don’t host or offer in-calls. My private residence is off-limits, and asking won’t change that. I exclusively offer outcalls to respectable hotels, which you’ll need to book and send me the full details in advance. I also love starting our time together with a drink in the hotel bar or nearby lounge. It’s the perfect way to ease into the moment, build a little chemistry, and ensure we both feel safe and relaxed before heading upstairs. Please be courteous and respect that this is the rhythm that works best for me – and trust me, it sets the tone for something truly special.
Are your rates negotiable? They’re not. If you’re asking, we’re likely not a good fit. Price is an issue in the absence of value and baby I'm worth it. Please respect the value I place on my time, energy, and the care I put into each experience.
Do you accommodate wardrobe requests? I love a reason to dress up – so if you have a vision, let me know! You’re welcome to send inspiration or even gift me something you’d like to see me in (just be sure it arrives with time to spare). That said, I always dress with intention and context in mind. I won’t wear anything that would turn too many heads in public spaces or feel out of place for the setting – think elegance over extravagance. I tend to lean more modest for social dates, but if you’re hoping for something a little more tailored – say, boardroom fantasy or chic executive – I’m happy to slip into something that sets the tone just right.
What’s your preferred dating style? I love a long, lingering dinner, live music, or staying in with vinyl and wine (or scotch). On another note... I’m also a rave girl at heart – If you want to take you on a real adventure, trust me I'll make it worth a lifetime of stories.
A little about my personal assistant? My assistant Daisy is my closest confidant and right hand gal – she handles all of my bookings, screening, and correspondence with grace, charm, and a no-nonsense attitude. If you'd like the pleasure of my company, you'll need to treat her with the same respect and care you’d show me… Consider it an essential part of the foreplay. 💋 She's thoughtful, efficient, and trusted not just by me, but by some of the best in the industry. Some particularly dashing suitors have even gone the extra mile to tip or gift her – never expected, of course, but wow does it leave a lasting impression. That’s next-level gentleman energy.
Are you open to long-term arrangements? Very much so – this is actually where I shine. I value connection, chemistry, and quality time above all else. If you're seeking something more meaningful and ongoing, the kind of deep, delicious GFE that grows with time, I’d love to hear what you have in mind. Let’s explore it over a dinner or drink date… the best stories always begin that way.
